Yesterday Alyssa had a birthday party for a girl in her Kindergarten class. It was at a pumpkin patch, and since it's past halloween, the only people there were those of us there for the party. They had a petting zoo area where kids could pet goats, and horses, and llama's and bunnies. They could go on a pony ride, and play in a giant hay area where there were bales of hay and lots of areas to climb up and down and around in the hay. It was really a lot of fun and since it was just our group there, the kids could run around all over the place. Alyssa has always been a very cautious girl. She usually doesn't like new situations and is very shy and quiet. So it was surprising to me when she announced to Rich and I that she wanted me to drop her off at the party, and pick her up at the end. Since I don't really know the family of the birthday girl, I wasn't going to drop her off, because I could probably fit the definition of an overprotective mother sometimes,...